I've been fortunate to not have many close family or friends pass away. My grandpa passed away when I was a teenager, but in my adult life, none until my grandma. Therefore, I've never dealt with the five stages of grief or been able to relate to anyone who has. I always share my condolences and do truly feel sorry for people experiencing the loss, but I'm sad to say I was the "I'm so sorry to hear that" person. I'm not that person anymore.
The loss of someone close is very emotional, regardless of your relationship with them. It's the removal of someone familiar. A loneliness. A void.
I must say if you are ever to lose someone close to you (and I certainly hope you don't) and you share that loss with me, I will truly know how you feel and have a deeper appreciation and understanding for the grief you're dealing with. The support of friends and their concern and companionship make those hours, days, minutes of uncertainty easier to conquer. I guarantee it.
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